December 18, 2007
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We all have heard that it’s easier to forgive than to forget, and that people often forgive but they won’t forget. The truth is, I think that unless you’re capable of forgetting, you’re not really forgiving. Forgiveness is the act of excusing someone for their offense, but unless you’re willing to forget this offense, you’re not really forgiving them. By refusing to forget this offense against you, you’re still holding a grudge against this person. Therefore forgiveness isn’t really really forgiveness unless you’re willing to forget as well. On the other hand, maybe not being
able to forget isn’t such a bad thing and it’s just a part of your body natural survival instincts. The
memories of the offense remain to remind you that you don’t wanna get
hurt again and that you should be cautious next time. To forget or to not forget. Either way, you’re screwed because forgetting is a double-edged sword! Good night!
Comments (8)
ba doink ka doinky! ;D
It’s true, but the one great thing about being human is that we have the choice to choose and decide for ourselves. Yes, we might not forget how others have hurt us or the shit people have put us through. The truth of the matter is whether we let these grudges control who we are and who we are going to become. We are prone to be hurt. Without hurting and going through this pain, we cannot learn to love. Where would we start? We are only hurt to the point where we cannot forget because we understand how important these people are in our lives and without them life is meaningless, but it also does not mean we cannot forgive. Many times, we are frustrated over the people we care about most. If we didn’t care about them, we would not be frustrating over them in the first place. So should we forget or not, you ask? In my opinion, we should forgive and forget. We should put our trust in those we love and just have faith that one day everything will be perfect. I don’t know if you have ever watch ‘The Secret’, but the secret is that believe and you shall receive. Therefore, we should believe in those we truly love and just remember not to let our past control who we want to become, but to learn from our judgments and become better people. Besides, we should forget because too much retarded things in our brains just makes more stress. Stress gives white hair and that is just bad bad bad. Nah mean?? Haha. Good-nights. ;]
Ba doink ka doinky!
now for the retarded part.. da dee da dum da da da da da da.
nhi your entries have way too much thinking involved.
and stop going to you know where alone…no ones there!
因為未來是無法預測吧
always
You do? you understand what I write??? It meant to be a secret… only selected people can decode it
haha,then you don’t know why there are so many questions