Is timing important?

Have you ever asked yourself, “ If only the timing for me had been different?".  Have you ever wondered what might have been, had things fallen out otherwise with your previous relationships?

Timing is everything, and I am a firm believer of that. This is true for everything, not just relationships. Ask yourself this: How much of your life is due to things happened because you were in the right place at the right time? Have you ever driven past a car accident and wondered how lucky you were to have missed it by a few seconds? That’s timing.

As for relationships, you need good timing to be with someone.  It has to do with what’s going on in your life, where you are emotionally, how mature and ready you are, whether one of you is in a relationship, where you are in life in terms of your career, and whether you ever meet the person in the first place.

You need to be at the right place and right time to meet each other, to meet the friend who introduces you, to sit next to them at Barnes and Noble, to be next to them in line at Starbucks. You need to meet when one of you isn’t in a relationship or about to get married, or moving across the country or the other side of the world the next day.

So yes, timing is important. Timing matters. Timing is everything.